After 12 years of secular counciling and one week at at onsite, an intense psychotherapy center, for childhood abuse, I had gone as far as I could go they said,(counselors) and I graduated so to speak. There was still something missing??? I still felt too much of the past pains, like a scab that was not healed? At one more attempt at another therapists she said,I need Godly councel ,of which I am a christian. This counceler gave me a book, rejection junkies by Dr Gary Lawrence. The book had new life dynamics mentioned. To my surprise I lived in Phoenix AZ! Of course I made an appointment. My life totally changed from that day on, except my baptism. If any one who reads this and really wants to truly heal, make any or all effort to go. Your life WILL CHANGE for the better. Again I said, from a survivor of abuse, AT ALL COST GO!!