We have only seen the dr twice (consult and tube chec) - all other times are a nurse / medical asst. Some of the verbal instructions about 'full vs semi bladder' and where (location) to take the trigger shot were different than the paperwork/video. .
At the beginning of the process, more information was needed for us. We were not given all of the details necessary and the attitude of the staff was not as helpful as we had hoped. There was also one point when the nurse advised my cousin to get a new surrogate. I think that the nurse's personal opinions should be kept to themselves. We were trying to make educated decisions about timing without all the information.