Dating After 50

Whether you are back in the dating pool after a divorce or still single after a number of years, the dating scene after 50 calls for an abundance of singles savvy. Meeting others through the web for dating has now become popular, and there are a few sites out there that specialize in dating for those over 50. Since many things have changed in the dating world with the rapid growth of technology, one might be swimming in the uncharted waters of dating in the year 2013.

Meeting Online

Such sites as ourtime.com, SeniorPeopleMeet.com and eharmony.com might be a place to start a search. One can browse pictures and, after putting in some basic information, is able to begin the search. Remember to include a recent picture for the main photo in your profile, as surprises are not welcome in the online dating world. Label older photos with the year, if possible. Being honest is another factor in online dating; your hope will be that you find someone who is honest in return. If you arrange to meet the person who seems so perfect, do so in a public place and get to know them. It is easy to be swept away by a great photo and a few words, so add caution to your dating game. Before meeting, think of some places that might be enjoyable and safe for a first date, such as a walk, coffee or dinner, allowing for getting to know them as well as enjoyment. Think of the date as a way of making a new friend, not as a search for Mr. or Ms. Right. Remember to be yourself when you meet; however, avoid the blurting of too many details and focus on learning more about the person next to you.

Clubs and Organizations

Membership in a health club, hobby club or service organization allows one to meet people face to face with similar interests. Not only does one do something for themselves or the community, but they are part of a group and can get to know someone on an ongoing basis. In a setting that includes less anxiety, it is easier to connect, laugh and share good times.

Dating after 50 does not need to be a walk in a minefield. It can be fun and enjoyable, allowing your zest for life and inner charm to once again come to the light of day. You might want to read some of the writings of Joan Price on senior sexuality before you begin, although friendship should be the first stop in the over 50 dating world. Welcome aboard!